Your
Ecstatic Self
Your
Ecstatic Self
What is Ecstatic Self: Spiritual Coaching?
A place to explore the intersection of identity, belonging, spirituality, sexuality, and living authentically
Who is Kaelan
Kaelan is a spiritual guide who has led meditations, coaching sessions, and yogic practices since 2008. He founded Ecstatic Self LLC during the pandemic of 2020; his client list ranges from CEOs of NFL teams to federal judges—from Ivy League tenured professors to leaders in healthcare startups.
He has written two books on personal growth and belonging (Journey to the Ecstatic Self & I Dreamt of Flight). Kaelan lived in a meditative ashram for 7 years, earned his advanced CRT 500 in yogic instruction, and has over 1/2-million followers on Ecstatic Self YouTube and other socials.
He has led corporate leadership and empathy workshops for top corporations like JP Morgan, TripAdvisor, KPMG, Bank of America, etc. He graduated magna cum laude from Northwestern University and lives in Washington, DC with his husband and pets.
Why Coach with Kaelan?
Kae’s Specialties
Self- Integration
Meditation Mastery
Personal Empowerment
Inclusive Spirituality
Kaelan’s Coaching
Philosophy
Unveiling the Authentic Self:
Kaelan’s coaching journey is about unveiling your true self, embracing every aspect of your being. He guides you to recognize and integrate your inherent wholeness, blending light, dark, masculine, and feminine energies into a harmonious self.
Guided Spiritual Enlightenment:
Kaelan employs meditation as a tool for spiritual enlightenment, helping you to see life’s magic. He leads you through introspective journeys, unraveling the complexities of your psyche and fostering profound spiritual growth.
Illuminating Personal Pathways:
As a guiding light, Kaelan illuminates the pathways within you, holding doors open to new possibilities. His coaching is about enabling you to discover your inner wisdom and strength, facilitating your journey of transformation.
Celebrating Wholeness and Divinity:
Kaelan’s philosophy emphasizes the sacredness of every part of your being. He aids in recognizing your inherent divinity, fostering a journey of self-discovery that reveals and polishes your innate perfection and spiritual connection.
Kae's Books
Journey to the Ecstatic Self
This guidebook walks you through the realms of soulfulness, shadow exploration, and identity dreaming to arrive in a land of wholeness. Through exploring these exercises, stories, and meditations with Kae, you will uncover your wild, radiant self — the intrinsically aligned person that you were always meant to be. The “you” that already exists deep down at your core. Lace up those boots and get ready to Journey to the Ecstatic Self.
I Dreamt of Flight: A Fantasy Novel
18 year old Bondi Ashborne never knew he could breathe fire, never knew that the government was rounding up people like him and slamming them into concentration camps. No, all he knows is that life as a gay, quarter-dragon in a fully-human town couldn’t be harder for him.
When fate forces him to flee his home, he ends up encountering other Mythicals like himself: enigmatic naga,…
Ring in 2025 with Kaelan on a six-day retreat, focusing on transformation and growth for the new year!
Nestled in the snowy landscape of the Willow Retreat Center, this intimate gathering is your chance to shed old patterns and step into the new year with clarity and purpose.
Surrounded by nature and kindred spirits, you’ll embark on a soulful journey of renewal, leaving behind what no longer serves you and embracing the possibilities ahead. Join us for a deeply moving experience that will inspire lasting change and connect you with your true self.
Activities
- 1-on-1 personalized coaching
- Mantras, meditations, & spiritual philosophies
- Clothing-optional ecstatic dance
- Storytelling circles
- Spiritual artwork creation
- Journaling sessions
- Nature mindfulness walks
- Vision boarding
- Nude physical yoga
- Partnered connection exercises
- and so much more…
Dates: From 4pm, Sunday, December 29th, 2024 to 12pm, Friday, January 3rd, 2025
Investment in Your Journey: $2580 ($600 deposit secures your place). We believe in making this experience accessible; please inquire about our partial scholarships for those facing financial challenges.
Join Us: Space is extremely limited to ensure a personalized and intimate experience, so please CLICK HERE to download and submit your application at your earliest convenience.
Please Note: We adhere to a thoughtful payment and refund policy to ensure a smooth experience. 50% payment due by September 3rd, 100% payment due by November 3rd. Refunds available (minus a $400 fee) until 40 days prior to the retreat start date; within 40 days, no refunds.
What clients have to say
1. Connection: Kaelan makes me feel seen and understood. When we’re talking about an issue I am facing, I really like how he tells parallel stories about events in his life. I reinforces the notion that what I am going through is normal and relatable. That someone else can understand. That someone else has been there too. I find it comforting and reassuring.
2. Insight: I have nearly two decades of life on Kaelan. I did initially wonder if he had had enough life experience to help me. I needn’t have worried. Kaelan brings a wealth of insight to our sessions, and I am continually impressed with how he can see past the presenting problem and get to the heart of the matter. He comes to his work with true wisdom.
3. Acceptance: Sometimes, we talk about situations where I have a choice to react in this way or that. Logically, it may be a clear choice, but I take my time, because I am sorting through emotional baggage. Kaelan is remarkably patient. He lets me be where I am at, and I never feel pressure to choose one option over another. On one occasion, he did share with me what he might do in the same situation. But when I made the opposite choice, he showed understanding and compassion. He really seems to accept me wherever I am in my journey.
I’m very happy working with Kaelan. I have been with three other life coaches before him, and I really like the unique set of skills and knowledge that he brings to our sessions. I wouldn’t hesitate for an instant in recommending him to anyone who is on a journey of growth and self-discovery.”
Frequently Asked
Questions
How do sessions work?
Kaelan meets with individuals for one hour a week. The meetings can be virtual or in-person (if local to Washington, DC). He asks for a 3-month commitment to give time for growth to take root. Change takes time to become observable, and having 12 weeks together gives sufficient time to assess how much development has occurred. He assigns daily homework that will take approximately 30-45 minutes to complete.
How much does it cost to work with Kaelan?
His rate is $185/hour. That works out to be $740/month—but if you pay for the 3 months in full, he will discount that rate 15%: $1887 (instead of $2,220). It matters to Kaelan that his services are available to anyone—if you are experiencing financial limitations but feel called to engage, please reach out so an alternative rate can be arranged. A preliminary introductory call is always free of charge.
Is Kaelan hosting in-person events?
Yes! Please check out the retreats section. You can sign up for the mailing list to receive updates on future offerings.
Does Kaelan offer “Tantric” work?
You’ve maybe seen his videos about Tantra and body/sex positivity. Kaelan studied and practices “Classical Tantra,” which differs from massage or techniques for better sex. None of his sessions are “hands-on.” No judgment if that’s what is being sought; it’s just not the type of services he provides.
How can I still engage if one-on-one coaching isn’t right for me?
Check out Kaelan’s YouTube Channel or his books; they both provide resources for finding belonging and coming home to yourself. He’s also always happy to hear via email or DM about how things are going in your life and how you are developing and growing.
What style of meditation does he teach?
Kaelan has been initiated into practices from various spiritual traditions including Kashmir Shivaism, Vajrayana Buddhism, Shakti Tantra, and Vedanta. He also incorporates techniques from Bön, Tao, Andean healing traditions, and mystical Christianity.
How does Kaelen approach coaching?
This isn’t a relationship between the wounded and the healed; Kaelan is still on his journey toward wholeness and happiness. He walks the path beside you — not in front of you. He views himself as a doorman: a man pointing out portals or openings to move through, but it is you who are taking the steps to cross. This is about you, where you are, and where you feel called to explore. He does not reuse a set curriculum but instead bases each session and each journey on the needs of the individual. He uses his years of experience and intuitive understanding to guide his clients back home to themselves. He embraces the totality of the human experience and sees nothing as wrong; instead, he believes everyone is indelibly sacred and holy. All parts of you are welcome to show up. Each person is perfectly imperfect.”